Need Help Using Your Words?

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Need Help Using Your Words?

Use Your Words

 We tell our children this when they’re learning to speak. Instead of reaching, grunting, or wailing –  we say, “Use your  words.”

But – what if toddlers aren’t the only ones who need to be reminded?

What if we all do?

If you’re reading this, you’ve already figured out it’s easier to ask than point and grunt.

Words matter.

A book dangling off the edge of a table, closed with a page marked. There's a painting of Buddha in the background

Words Create Our Reality

 Think about it.

 No. Really.

 Take a couple seconds, close your eyes, and step away from the screen.

 Now – think.

 It doesn’t matter what about.

“What the hell am I doing?”

“This is stupid.”  

“I should get back to work.”

“Why am I wasting my time?”

 Great. All of these are perfect.

My question is this: Those thoughts, then ones in your head right now – how do you think them?

 … 

 In pictures?

 Are they swirls of colors and shapes? (Like Jimi Hendrix)

 Are they tastes? Smells? Tones?

 No. They’re words.

 This is what I mean by understanding the power of words. Language isn’t just a tool we use to  transmit information. Words are the foundations of our thoughts. They structure of our minds.

 We’re wired by words and we barely notice.

 All words aren’t created equal. One isn’t just as  good as the next. Words matter.

 Take it from Twain,

 “The difference between the almost right word and the right word is really a large matter.  ‘Tis the difference between the lightning bug and the lightning.”  

 Lightning bugs don’t inspire action. They don’t win hearts and minds. And they certainly don’t  effectively communicate your message to your customers.

 Lightning does.